Hi Blog.
This post will be dedicated to my 30s self lol.
Being 30s is not as scary as I would have been imagined. I mostly thought I will be miserable and sad. But it is wrong! Maybe this age comes with maturity hihi.
Being 30s comes with advantage. Expected routine, jobs, income, and I know most things I want and I want to do in life. I become clear of what I like or dislike, and I become more confident with choices in life. I am not scared to decide things I want because I understand life is not that long anymore.
Not that I become perfect. All things that I was scared before become blurred because I know most of it are not what define myself. If I do not have a bright career, so what, I can pay my own meals and buy some things I want. If I do not have a perfect skin and fashion, so what, I am perfect the way I am. If I spend most of the time alone, so what, I can do whatever I want.
I understand that what is mine will eventually become mine, and what is not mine will not become mine no matter how hard I try. So I become less greedy for many things. The most important things are my inner peace and how content I feel with my life.
I try my best to not swayed by other’s thought. People can easily criticize and comment about others. I allocate time for my closest important friends and that’s it. My closest family’s and friends’ inputs are the most important. And I mostly know what I should do. Really, I should put myself for my own happiness and not depend to anyone else. Having freedom to do and decide things in life are some of my favorite things. My competency, my manner define myself.
Although it’s like I am the most mature person in the world, I believe I am not. I try my best to keep learning and try to listen to others. I try to keep helping people, do my best for greatest good, and spread positivity around me. Well, being 30s means I am more capable to do more things, and can empathize to more things. And hopefully all this time can make me a better mature person. Hopefully I can keep being more mature and can easily laugh when things get hard (I mean, laugh at myself lol).
That’s all for today. For you who just hit 30, don’t worry. Greater happiness will wait for you. Keep moving to better side.
And to myself. Thank you for being there. Thank you for trying hard in many aspects in life. You’re doing great and will keep up the good work in the future.
